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Only Online: In Memoriam
James William (Bill) Whedbee, Ph.D.
Nancy B. Lyon Professor of Biblical Studies
September 24, 1938-January 22, 2004
From Ken Wolf, Professor of History
In a way I feel unworthy to have been given one of these precious
segments to express my feelings about Bill and what he meant to me. This
hall is filled with people whose lives Bill touched, many of whom knew him
much longer and much better than I did.
Indeed looking back on the relationship I had with Bill before his
illness, I am a bit embarrassed to say that I could count on one hand the
number of times that he was a guest at my house or I a guest at his. We
didn’t do coffee together at Somecrust or meet for lunch at the Village
Grille, and only once do I remember getting together with Bill for a beer
after work. Had I come to Pomona in the early seventies rather than the
mid-eighties, I would have spent some quality time with him on the
basketball court (I’m told he had quite a set shot). But by the time I got
here he had already exchanged his high-tops for Nikes. And even though I
tried (well, once anyway), I couldn’t keep up with him on the track.
My relationship with Bill was built instead out of the bits and pieces of
everyday contact, contact that owed much to two happy circumstances: one,
that his office was right next to the xerox machine; and two, that he
never bothered to close his door. I don’t believe that a day went by in
the seventeen years that we shared that vine-covered version of Pearsons
that I did not walk by and poke my head into that unimagineably chaotic
office to commiserate about the mid-semester work load, to compare notes
on a student whom we had in common, or to discuss a bible passage that was
giving me fits. I never made an appointment but I don’t remember a time
when he didn’t seem genuinely happy to see me, ready to put down his book
or set aside a stack of papers and simply chat.
It was on that kind of contact--little daily encounters that either of us
would have been hard-pressed to recall even a week later--that Bill’s and
my relationship was based. Aside from auditing a class or two from each
other along the way, I remember only two occasions when our relationship
truly transcended that casual, collegial context. Once, in December of
1991, when Bill stood up in a cabinet meeting and put to rest all doubts
about my future at Pomona College. And again in March of 2003, when I ran
into Bill just outside the Smith Center and he told me that he needed to
go to the hospital. Over the next ten months, the last ten months of
Bill’s life, I spent a lot of time at Bill’s house and finally got to know
Bill the way you probably think I knew him all along.
It strikes me now, in Bill’s absence, how much a community like ours
operates in just this way. That surprisingly deep relationships can be
carved out over time by countless, unplanned daily encounters. These, it
seems to me now more than ever before, are the ties that bind us in a
world like Pomona College. Ties that we tend to take for granted until
they’re gone. But ties that probably wouldn’t work nearly as well if we
didn’t.
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